How it works

Four steps, then out of the way.

mesj stays quiet until wording, timing or the recipient appears worth another look.

Step 1
Talk
Message as naturally as you do now.
Step 2
Check
Ask for assistance or receive a rare prompt when something appears worth another look.
Step 3
Decide
Edit, send, wait, change recipient or create the agreed plan.
Step 4
Go
Let the conversation finish and return to real life.

Everyday examples.

Are you still at the office?

Sorry lost track of time don't be annoyed

I'm on my way now and expect to be home at 11:15.

mesj offered a calmer version. The sender chose it.

Mum's birthday—Saturday or Sunday?

Sunday works for us.

Sunday then, 1pm at ours.

One agreed time, captured as a plan.

Five-a-side Thursday, need two more.

I'm in.

That's ten. Booked.

Needs you: a direct question. The rest is simply unread.

Table for four at eight?

Yes, works for me.

Booked—Friday, 8pm.

Sorted. The thread stops repeating itself.

Did you see everything I sent? I've had loads more ideas.

Have you had a chance to review the prototype? Could we arrange 20 minutes next week?

Tuesday at 10 suits.

One question and one answerable request.